These articles are all about love, connection and the magic of tantra in the context of relationships.
The Coronavirus pandemic has really forced many of us to work in different ways, but what do you do when you organise tantra festivals of hundreds of people? There was only one answer - take it online! But how do online tantra festivals (and online ISTA festivals) actually work, and is it worth the
Wherever you are in the world right now, I think that no person has gone untouched by the current COVID-19 situation. Whether you’re alone or with family, it all comes with its own struggles. Personally I think loneliness is one of the hardest things that we as human beings have to deal with, but
After time, relationships stop feeling new and exciting. You might start taking each other for granted. Life gets dull. Stop right there - this is not the end! In my opinion, there’s nothing more lethal than routine. I’m someone who gets excited by change, by new things, experiences and emotions, and I’m sure I’m
Hugging, holding hands, massaging, kissing... is it ok to do that in front of children? Is it harmful or beneficial? Where do you draw the line? Even though I personally don't have kids yet, the way that children are raised is a subject that interests me greatly. I have learnt a lot by analysing what
Here are my favourite Tantra quotes “It's time we saw sex as the truly sacred art that it is. A deep meditation, a holy communion and a dance with the force of creation.” ~ Marcus Allen "The body can become a vehicle to that which is beyond body, and sex energy can become a
Most people reading this title would probably think “what the hell kind of question is that, obviously couples should sleep together, it’s what you do!” I’m not going to try to convince you otherwise, but just give me a minute to explain why I wrote this post. WHY do you think this is
The world is getting smaller and smaller. Plane tickets keep falling in price and it is no longer uncommon to travel halfway across the globe to go on holiday. Nor is falling in love with someone who lives 8,000km away from you - hence the boom in long-distance relationships over the last decade or
It was about 2AM and I was sitting at the back of a moped, speeding through the centre of Delhi. It was so dusty that I couldn’t even open my eyes, but I could barely notice my surroundings as a phrase I just heard kept repeating itself in my mind: “I never usually give
Landing back in London after a year of being away, I casually asked on Facebook what’s happening in the city. A dear friend told me about some tantric event held by Monique Darling and Peter Petersen the next day, so I went to check out their profiles. Quick and honest review of Monique and
I’ll let you in on something personal - I’ve never really dated. From the age of 16 I’ve gone from having one serious relationship after the next, lasting at least 1-5 years each. The first guy called me his girlfriend after about an hour. The second one just naturally flowed into a relationship right
Did the title make you say WHAAT?? Yeah I don’t blame you, I do and see some very odd things in life, and I’m no longer afraid to post about them online. This is quite a personal post, and you totally don’t have to believe me, but I’m writing this in hopes that it
The following is a list of “I will never…” phrases that I actually said out loud. Not only that, I truly believed them to the core of my being. Life has a funny way of throwing things your way that challenge your way of thinking. I began to notice a pattern over the last few
A friend of mine was driving me to the airport a few days ago. Being as we are, we decided to spend our last hour together by talking about naughty girly stuff. After countless hilarious stories and some epic shits-and-giggles, this phrase came up, "we need to write a blog on if you feel
You may have seen an article of mine a while back about how I found my true love. It was a beautiful, magical fairytale. He was…let’s just call him Prince Charming…perfect in every way. He was gorgeous, mature, strong, funny, generous, honest, spiritual and someone I would call a “real man”. Basically you don’t find
Has your partner ever hit you? Has he* ever tried to control your whereabouts? Has he tried to physically or psychologically manipulate you into doing something you don’t want to do, or believe something you’re not? Maybe he’s even gone further? This year I spoke to two close friends of mine who are in abusive
I'm starting to notice that more and more people are getting curious about tantra, and there has been an increase in workshops and retreats held worldwide. I have previously written about what you can expect from a one day workshop and also posted an introduction to sacred sexuality video, which you can see by clicking on the links.
This is a very random (but important!) post just to tell you that I think you should let go and get crazy tonight!! :) Every day of our lives we try to behave. We hold back our feelings or desires either because we are afraid of people judging us or because it may not
If you have ever been to a group meditation, a spiritual event or any form of mindful workshop, you will no doubt have heard people saying that changes in our lives start happening after you begin loving yourself unconditionally. By doing so, you open yourself to a whole new world of possibilities, and this
This summer we had the pleasure of hosting Matt Schwent from Unique Tantra and Leanne Edwards from Shamanika here in Marbella for a 3 hour introduction workshop to Sacred Sexuality. They travel all around the world, and if they happen to be in your country, I would highly recommend their week-long workshops, as well as
We lost one of our dogs, Pontik, this morning. Every body was in tears, frantically searching all the streets and putting up posters. I had a huge food order today as well, which I really wanted to do well, and I’ve barely slept all night, so to say I was stressed is an understatement.
