The Coronavirus pandemic has really forced many of us to work in different ways, but what do you do when you organise tantra festivals of hundreds of people? There was only one answer – take it online! But how do online tantra festivals (and online ISTA festivals) actually work, and is it worth the investment?

I’ve previously written several posts about what to expect from a tantra festival and a few examples of different tantra workshops. Never thought I’d be reviewing an online tantra festival though!

My first experience – online ISTA festival

I started off with a BIG one – the online ISTA festival (International School Of Temple Arts) back when we first went into lockdown in April 2020.

If you haven’t heard of ISTA before, here’s a quick quote from their website, “ISTA is part of a global transformational movement where human consciousness is being opened to its source as love and harmoniously integrating with other sentient kingdoms and dimensions. In particular ISTA works with spirituality and sexuality as two expressions of the life force.”

Essentially, it’s not much different to a regular tantra festival, they just had a few workshops that were recommended for people who have completed Level 1 of their training first.

After the ISTA festival I participated and assisted in other ones, they were a fair bit smaller but logistically they were all quite similar.

The logistics – how does an online tantra festival actually work?

girl checking phone messages at laptop

So it’s quite simple really. They had a website with a schedule – we could select our time zone and it would change accordingly (that was SO handy!). We also had a private Facebook group for participants which we had to join in order to access the festival. The group had a pinned post with all the Zoom links for that day and this was updated regularly. Participants could use this group to talk to teachers, other participants and get all the information they needed.

Most of the workshops were done in Zoom, with a few (mostly dances and yoga) over Facebook live. At the ISTA online festival we had 1,500 people, but with people across all timezones and workshops running 24 hours a day, there were usually between 150-300 people per workshop.

Once you entered into a workshop, the teacher encouraged everyone to have their cameras on. This enabled us to feel more connected to each other and also gave an element of safety to the space. The room closed after 10 minutes to create a safe container.

What kind of tantric workshops did we do?

couple about to kiss, in love, tantric ritual, candles, romantic

There was a combination of different workshop styles:

  • There were simple talks about tantra and sacred sexuality with introductions to this field for newcomers.
  • There were also more practical workshops that involved audience participation, such as shamanic breathwork or meditations.
  • There were a few couples workshops, but those rituals were only for couples who were physically present in the same space at the time.
  • There were yoga and dance classes where we could come and go as we pleased and enjoy some good music and move the body a little.
  • There was also a temple night where people could explore their sexuality further with other participants.

Was there nudity?

It’s a tantra festival, what do you think?? 🙂 Yes there was some nudity, but only during certain workshops and you were, of course, free to do only what you’re comfortable with, it was not a requirement.

For example, there was one workshop on the art of self-pleasuring, so you were encouraged to play with your body in ways that feel good to you. Some people just gave themselves a light massage, and some got completely naked and touched themselves to an orgasm. Many people had their cameras pointing the other direction for privacy and no one was allowed to just sit and watch, that’s not the point of these workshops and normally people in this field aren’t looking for that kind of thing anyway so it felt super safe.

How is an online tantra festival different to a regular festival?

Monique Darling and Peter Peterson, tantra workshops, cuddle party

It may just be easier to list some pros and cons here.

Pros of an online tantra festival:

  • You get a nice feeling of community, even if it’s at a distance
  • Everyone’s got their videos on, which makes you feel less alone/lonely
  • You still get to see your favourite tantra teachers live, which I think it a massive plus over just watching an online video
  • You can still ask questions during the workshops, so there is an interactive element to it
  • If you are interested in couples rituals, they still did workshops for couples so you could interact with each other
  • They even had “breakout rooms” for “family gatherings” where we would temporarily separate into a smaller room of 3-6 people and talk about our feelings or play out workshop instructions, which I thought was pretty neat!
  • They still manage to maintain a safe space, e.g. videos are filmed, but only the teacher is filmed, not the participants
  • You can watch replays for a while later, so if you missed a workshop because of the time difference, you can watch it again later
  • It could make you feel more comfortable as you’ll be able to do things in the comfort of your home that you may not be comfortable with doing in front of others (e.g. getting naked or shouting at the top of your lungs)
  • It’s much cheaper than a regular festival
  • It’s on 24 hours a day, so if you’ve ever wanted to see a particular teacher but they never come to your country, you now have access to them

Cons of an online tantra festival:

  • You can’t physically touch people, and hugging random strangers for 30 minutes straight is one of the best parts of a tantra festival!! 🙂
  • You miss out on proper connections, making friends is a little harder online as the only video time you get with other participants is during the breakout rooms
  • Sometimes Zoom crashes. During the 2nd tantra festival I went to, it happened to be on the weekend that Zoom crashed for many parts of the world, and I was assisting at that one, so seeing loads of people complain that they couldn’t get in was a little hectic.
  • If you love regular temple nights – the experience online will be nothing like real life
  • If you live with other people, doing some exercises can be a little uncomfortable. E.g. during shamanic breathwork I made a LOT of noise… thankfully I was home alone haha!
  • You can get distracted at home and skip workshops, I found myself a bit less motivated to participate online
  • Dance parties could never be the same

Conclusion – is an online tantra festival actually worth it?

Couples perform tantric yoga hug during a tantra festival

As you can see, there are a lot of pros and cons to these events. In my opinion, they’re definitely worth it one or two times, but I probably wouldn’t go again. At the beginning, it gives you a nice feeling of connection and you can learn some new things or release some emotions that need to come out. You can get to know some teachers that perhaps you couldn’t see in person and make some new friends. It’s also a great refresher if you’re already familiar with the tantra scene but haven’t participated in any workshops for a while. However, after a couple of these, they can get a bit monotonous as it’s often the same teachers doing the same workshops, as they’re limited to what they can do online.

If you are interested in tantra and there’s no one that’s doing workshops in your town right now, then I’d recommend going. The prices are very fair and it can help you get an idea if you’d like to join a proper festival later on.

If you don’t care much about the live aspect of it and just want to learn some great tantric techniques, then I would recommend trying out some online tantra courses.